We wish you could have been here with us each and every day. We have our wedding this year in June and we can only imagine how you would have looked as our beautiful bridesmaid. Lots of love and kisses Mum and Dad x x x x

New Years Day would have been your first birthday, we can only imagine what you would have looked liked and how big you would have been. Amy you are always in our hearts and dreams love Mum and Dad x x x x

THE WORLD MAY NEVER NOTICE IF A SNOWDROP DOESN'T BLOOM, OR EVEN PAUSE TO WANDER IF THE PETALS FALL TOO SOON. BUT EVERY LIFE THAT EVER FORMS, OR EVER COMES TO BE, TOUCHES THE WORLD IN SOME SMALL WAY FOR ETERNITY THE LITTLE ONE WE LONG FOR WAS SWIFTLY HERE AND GONE. BUT THE LOVE THAT WAS THEN PLANTED IS A LIGHT THAT STILL SHINES ON. AND THOUGH OUR ARMS ARE EMPTY, OUR HEARTS KNOW WHAT TO DO. EVERY BEATING OF OUR HEARTS SAYS THAT WE DO LOVE YOU

AN ANGEL NEVER DIES DON'T LET THEM SAY I WASN'T BORN THAT SOMETHING STOPPED MY HEART I FELT EACH TENDER SQUEEZE YOU GAVE I'VE LOVED YOU FROM THE START ALTHOUGH MY BODY YOU CAN'T HOLD IT DOESN'T MEAN I'M GONE THIS WORLD WAS WORTHY, NOT OF ME GOD CHOSE THAT I MOVE ON I KNOW THE PAIN THAT DROWNS YOUR SOUL WHAT YOU ARE FORCED TO FACE YOU HAVE MY WORD, I'LL FILL YOUR ARMS SOMEDAY WE WILL EMBRACE YOU'LL HEAR THAT IT WAS MEANT TO BE GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES BUT THAT WON'T SOFTEN YOUR WORST BLOW, OR MAKE YOUR HEART NOT ACHE ANOTHER CHILD YOU'LL BEAR BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY TO YOU THERE WILL COME A TIME, I PROMISE YOU, STROKE MY FACE AND KISS MY LIPS AND THEN YOU'LL UNDERSTAND ALTHOUGH I'VE NEVER BREATHED YOUR AIR, OR GAZED INTO YOUR EYES THAT DOESN'T MEAN I NEVER WAS AN ANGEL NEVER DIES

SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL SEEING THE IMAGES ON THE SCAN THE CLOCK STOPS, THE DOCTOR SPEAKS AND ALL THE BEAUTY IS GONE SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL HUGS WITH MIDWIFES AND TEARS THE PAIN OF LABOUR THE FIRST GLIMPSE OF OUR CHILD HOLDING OUR DAUGHTER IN OUR ARMS SAYING THE SPECIAL WORDS, SAYING GOODNIGHT SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL THE DRIVE HOME FROM HOSPITAL THE SLEEPLESS NIGHTS, THE RESTLESS WANDER THE MOTHERS MILK ALL READY TO FEED HER THE CARDS AND FLOWERS THE FAMILY VISITING SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL PLANNING HER SPECIAL DAY IN CHURCH WALKING DOWN THE AISLE, DAUGHTER IN HAND, GIVING HER AWAY SO MANY REMINDERS OF WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN ALL LOST WITH HER HEARTBEAT ALL SO NEARLY BEAUTIFUL SO NEAR SO FAR

A Verse r My Baby IF YOU HAD STAYED IF YOU DID NOT GO IF YOU HAD BEEN HERE TO SAY HELLO NOT A BREATH OR A WORD JUST SO STILL AND BEAUTIGUL IF YOU WERE HERE I WOULD HAVE SEEN YO WALK IF YOU WERE HERE I WOULD HAVE HEARD YOU TALK YOUR FIRST BIRTHDAY YOUR FIRST SCHOOL YOUR GROWING UP WE WILL MISS IT ALL OUR HEARTS WERE BROKEN ON THAT DAY YOU WENT TO A SPECIAL PLACE IN GODS ARMS WE KNOW YOU ARE SO AMY YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS WHERE EVER WE ARE WHAT EVER DO NEVER FORGOTTEN AND ALWAYS MISSED SO MUCH

A Verse r My Baby IF YOU HAD STAYED IF YOU DID NOT GO IF YOU HAD BEEN HERE TO SAY HELLO NOT A BREATH OR A WORD JUST SO STILL AND BEAUTIGUL IF YOU WERE HERE I WOULD HAVE SEEN YO WALK IF YOU WERE HERE I WOULD HAVE HEARD YOU TALK YOUR FIRST BIRTHDAY YOUR FIRST SCHOOL YOUR GROWING UP WE WILL MISS IT ALL OUR HEARTS WERE BROKEN ON THAT DAY YOU WENT TO A SPECIAL PLACE IN GODS ARMS WE KNOW YOU ARE SO AMY YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS WHERE EVER WE ARE WHAT EVER DO NEVER FORGOTTEN AND ALWAYS MISSED SO MUCH

In my dreams you are alive and well Precious child Precious child In my mind I see you clear as a bell Precious Child Precious child In my soul there is a hole that can never be filled But in my heart there is hope cause you are with me still In my heart, you live on always there, never gone Precious Child Precious Child You left too soon, though it may be true, that we are apart you live forever in my heart, in my heart In my plans i was the first to leave, but in this world I was left here to grieve Precious Child In my soul there is a hole that can never be filled But in my heart there is hope and you are still with me still. In my heart you live on, always there, never gone Precious Child You left to soon, though it may be true that we're apart You will live forever in my heart, god knows i want to hold you, see you, touch you and maybe there's a heaven and someday I will again please know you're not forgotten until then........ In my heart you live on, always there, never gone Precious Child, Precious Child You left to soon, though it may be true that we're apart You will live forever in my heart

WE DID NOT WANT YOU TO LEAVE WE DID NOT WANT YOU TO GO EVERYDAY WE SHED A TEAR WISHING YOU WERE HERE MUMMY AND DADDY PLEASE DON'T CRY I'VE GONE TO A CALM PLACE IN HEAVEN ALL THE ANGELS SING AND KISS MY LITTLE FACE WE MISS YOU SO MUCH IT BREAKS OUR HEARTS AND IF YOU WERE HERE NOW AMY WE WOULD HOLD YOU SO CLOSE I KNOW THE SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN AND THE DARK CLOUDS WILL GO AWAY AND THE BEAMS OF LIGHT WILL COME SHINING THROUGH AND MAKE IT A BETTER PLACE I'M SO GLAD WE GOT THE CHANCE TO SAY GOODBYE TO OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE GIRL YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH US IN OUR MINDS IN OUR THOUGHTS IN OUR HEARTS

"The pain is still deep inside, surfacing occasionally, but i get through somehow, I still cry, with some days being better than others. Seeing all the mothers passing with babies her age and imagining what she would look like, it always brings a tear or two so i have to turn away.

MY MUM AND DAD TELL LIES My mum - she tells a lot of lies She never did before. But from now on, until she dies, She'll tell a whole lot more Ask dad how he is, and because he can't explain, he will tell a little lie because he can't explain the pain. Ask my mum how she is, and she'll say, i'm alright." If that's the truth, please tell me, why does she cry each night? Ask dad how he is - I'm fine well: I'm coping," For god's sake, Dad, just tell the truth - tell them that your heart is broken. They'll love me all their life. I loved them all of mine. But if you ask them how they are they'll lie and say 'we're fine." I am here in heaven. I cannot hug them both from here. So, if they lie to you - don't listen: Just hug them and hold them near. On the day we meet again, We'll smile and I'll be bold. I'll say 'you're both lucky to get in here - with all the lies you've told."

A BUTTERFLY BESIDE US A butterfly lights beside us, like a sunbeam... and for a brief moment it's glory and beauty belong to our world.... but then it flies on again, and although we wish it could have stayed, we are so thankful to have seen it at all

AMY TOO BEAUTIFUL FOR THIS EARTH YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE STAR THAT SHINES THE BRIGHTEST LOVE FOREVER

Our beautiful little girl Taken away to heaven too Soon. Will always be with us forever and will never be apart

Amy you never got a day on earth God took you days before your birth A tiny angel god has made you We look to the stars and will always know that grandad Mick will care for you wherever your wings flow

Sleep Tight precious one ! Look over Mummy and Daddy Be their Strength in the way the Angels show you how Love forever Nanny Cochrane XXXXXXX

I am fundraising for www.uk-sands.org in memory of my daughter Amy who was stillborn 01/01/2011. Friends and family can donate online at www.justgiving.com/cleo-cochrane. I am attending zumba classes 2/3 times a week to lose weight and raise awareness for stillbirths and neonatal deaths in the uk. 17 babies are stillborn or die shortly after birth every day in the uk. With your support and money and awareness, sands can continue supporting those affected by the death of a baby and promote research to reduce the loss of babies lives.

I will miss you Amy every day of my life I will cherish precious memories of you in my thoughts and photographs we took Of you before we had to say goodbye Sleep now my little angel, i know that Grandad will look after you now, until You are with me again, back into your Mothers arms x x x x

I have accepted that i will never get over Amy's death, but that i can learn to live with it.

Our eyes weep to see you once again Our arms ache to hold you once more In our dreams we search for you But when we wake you are gone You are not here with us Amy But your memory lives on in our hearts We miss you and love you forever Love Mummy and Daddy x x x x

In my dreams you are alive and well, in my mind i see you clear as a bell, in my soul there is a hole that can never be fixed but in my heart there is hope because you are with me still, but in my heart you live on. Always there, never gone

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I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.